What started as a personal pressure release has grown into a space where moms who feel constantly needed, emotionally depleted, and wildly overstimulated come to feel seen, inspired and supported.

If any one or all of these apply to you…

  • Overstimulated AF, all the time

  • Drinking more than you want to — or trying not to

  • ADHD brain begging for systems that actually work

  • Navigating mental health and missing their spark

  • Ambitious as hell but stuck in survival mode

…then, same. Read on.

A woman is kneeling on a hardwood floor with three children around her. One child with reddish hair is kissing her on the cheek, another child with blonde hair is standing behind her with arms around her neck, and a third child with brown hair, sitting on the floor, is looking up at them. The woman is smiling, and there is a kitchen counter and refrigerator in the background.

Hi, I’m Ashley.

New Hampshire transplant from New Jersey. Full-time working mom of three. ChatGPT enthusiast (obviously). Big believer in cannabis and color-coded chaos.

Building connection, not clout.

This isn’t a highlight reel of success and sobering moments. It’s not ‘look at me, I’m thriving.’

  • It’s the in-between moments — the bathroom floor breakdowns followed by a whispered “WTF, is this normal?”

  • The tiny victories when something actually works and you wonder if it could work for someone else too.

  • The inner monologue turned external because maybe someone out there feels the same.

  • It’s routines and resets. Mess and meaning. Humor, healing, and just enough structure to keep from collapsing.

I’m not the aspirational mom. I’m the one in the chaos, holding space and asking, “Same?” If you’re here to breathe, break, rebuild — and maybe laugh while doing it — welcome.

I don’t promise perfection. I’m not your guru. But if you’re overstimulated, slightly unhinged, and looking for systems, softness, or just someone who gets it—you’re in the right place.

Let’s spiral together. But with a plan.