Unfiltered
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Welcome to the Unfiltered & Color-Coded blog — a raw, relatable corner of the internet where nothing is black and white, and every post is a vibe.

Through color-coded storytelling, I share honest reflections on motherhood, mental health, and finding small sparks of clarity in the chaos — so you can feel seen, inspired, and a little less alone.

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What I Learned After 30 Days Sober(Curious) as a Mom
Motherhood, Sober Curious, Lifestyle Ashley Massa Motherhood, Sober Curious, Lifestyle Ashley Massa

What I Learned After 30 Days Sober(Curious) as a Mom

Let’s get one thing straight: this is not some tale of perfect sobriety. I’m not here to pretend I didn’t have a few “oops” moments or act like I’m suddenly enlightened and sipping green juice in the woods. But what I did find over the past 30 days (give or take a few sips) is a version of myself I kind of forgot I liked—a version that’s way more in control, way more present, and honestly? Way funnier. (Pretend my husband agrees.)

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